I have a full depth penile inversion vaginoplasty on the books for early 2026. A whole lot of my personal energy and attention in 2025 has been devoted to research and logistics around this surgery. It’s been a very long time coming, and will be my last step of transition, beyond just continuing to fuckContinue reading “So… you’re thinking about transfeminine bottom surgery, part 1, glossary”
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The rage of the time lost
I’m going to take this space to help with a little bit of processing that I did at this year’s (2025) Critical Northwest regarding my trans identity. It’s a resolution of a fine point of pain and anger that is commonly faced by middle aged transitioners, and while I see this pain point commonly talkedContinue reading “The rage of the time lost”
Pride 2025
Today, I will dress myself, head down to Seattle and gather with all of the other trans people out at Trans Pride Seattle. I am a bubbly person. I smile, I bounce, I scream in joy. I will generally match the energy that is given to me, even as I sort of advance to myContinue reading “Pride 2025”
LGBTQIA+ People Are Not Going Back
Per this action from Julia Serano, I am standing up and adding my voice to the collective scream. I think everyone with a heart whatsoever had some feelings on November 5th. I know that I certainly did. But I don’t think it was the shocked wailing that I saw around so much of the internet.Continue reading “LGBTQIA+ People Are Not Going Back”
National Coming out day 2024
So, it’s national coming out day today, and conveniently, the this photo showed up in my Facebook memories. Zoë cooking in her kitchen, 2016 It’s national coming out day. Might as well bask in what to me is the mild cringe of this pre-hormones person as I tell my story. If you’ve been around meContinue reading “National Coming out day 2024”
The Catholic Church has declared trans people abominations
https://apnews.com/article/vatican-gender-surrogacy-abortion-pope-3f84d8eb97f045b0cfb0ec1efa4e614e So, the vatican has release a new encyclical today, and there is some attempt at threading some sort of needle, but on balance, the thing is hard to read as anything but a full-throated slam of trans people. Some key quotations from the article above: “It follows that any sex-change intervention, as a rule,Continue reading “The Catholic Church has declared trans people abominations”
Protected: What I Would Say To My Mother (if she were talking to me)
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